“Either you think–or else others have to think for you and take power from you, pervert and discipline your natural tastes, civilize and sterilize you.”

Tender is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Yes, I’m surfing a huge F. Scott Fitzgerald wave at the moment. Although I think my ride culminated nicely with my just having seen the new The Great Gatsby, and am now paddling towards the shore, going over the experience in my head. Despite some reservations – which have nothing to do with how the movie adapted the book, because I like to look at it as an artwork in its own right – I enjoyed the movie quite a bit. Baz Luhrmann stays true to himself, so if you’re a fan of his rowdy style, you won’t be disappointed. 

Window Herb Garden

This post is for Charlotte.

If I didn’t love cooking or eating, I don’t think I ever would have had a garden of any kind. But when the prospect of flavourful nutrition is involved, I will happily dig my fingers into dank soil, prune, water, gush over new sprouts, and generally tend with enthusiasm to my miniature window herb garden.

This is my first year growing my own herbs, and I’m very happy with the set-up I have so far. I’ve got rosemary, oregano, basil, coriander, lemon balm, mint, and wild strawberries crammed onto my kitchen window sill, all of which I’ve purchased as seedlings from the market. Most of them are herbs that I use on a daily basis: I use lemon balm and mint for both hot and cold beverages and like to add them to veggie salads for an unexpected kick; I use basil for pretty much anything, but the main reason I wanted to grow lots of it was because I’m a nut for home-made pesto; coriander is probably my favourite herb, and I could eat it on everything, but its main purpose in my garden is to enhance the several Mexican dishes that I make regularly; oregano is my magic ingredient when I want to turn a simple pasta dish into something exceptional; rosemary is a bit of a novelty to me, but I’m learning to use it in roast dishes and with mushrooms; as for the strawberries, they were purchased more or less as a whim, but are doing surprisingly well – it even looks like I’ll be able to pick enough to make a dessert for two people! (That is, me and my companion.)

As you can see, I’ve made caring for the garden easier for myself by adding notes with caring instructions to each plant. I can’t remember where I got this idea from, but I certainly can’t praise it enough. If it hadn’t been for those notes, my muddled mind would have never been able to keep up with the individual requirements of each plant! (I was particularly tickled by those of rosemary: ‘Do not water and do not feed.’ Sweet!)

Of course, there’s a huge variety of edibles that you can grown on your window sill. My companion managed to nurture black prince tomato seeds – which he procured and dried himself – into 1m tall, healthy plants that are very likely to breed actual fruit. (Then again, this man would get a richly blossoming peach tree if he picked up a dry stick on the street and stuck it in some mud.) Next year, depending on how my current garden flourishes (or not, though hopefully not), I might expand the repertoire.

Because really, there’s nothing to it: a bit of soil, a bit of sun, and regular watering. Are you growing anything interesting in your windows or gardens this year?

Olivia Joules’ Rules For Living

Having mentioned Helen Fielding’s Olivia Joules and the Overactive Imagination in a previous post, I suddenly remembered just how much I enjoy Helen Fielding’s writing – her humour, her humanity, her wittiness, and her practical advice on life – and how much I value the fifteen rules for (happy and sane) living that she attributes to the heroine of her latest novel, Olivia Joules. (Who is, for your information, a confident, dazzling, emancipated woman, albeit one that’s occasionally prone to near-fatal accidents.) My favourites (and the ones I use most) are items 2, 9, 12, and 14. Here they all are in a neat little list.

Rules for living, by Olivia Joules

1. Never panic. Stop, breathe, think.
2. No one is thinking about you. They’re thinking about themselves, just like you.
3. Never change haircut or colour before an important event.
4. Nothing is either as bad or as good as it seems.
5. Do as you would be done by, e.g. thou shalt not kill.
6. It is better to buy one expensive thing that you really like than several cheap ones that you only quite like.
7. Hardly anything matters: if you get upset, ask yourself, ‘Does it really matter?’
8. The key to success lies in how you pick yourself up from failure.
9. Be honest and kind.
10. Only buy clothes that make you feel like doing a little dance.
11. Trust your instincts, not your overactive imagination.
12. When overwhelmed by disaster, check if it’s really a disaster by doing the following: a) think, ‘Oh, fuck it,’ b) look on the bright side and, if that doesn’t work, look on the funny side. If neither of the above works then maybe it is a disaster so turn to items 1 and 5.
13. Don’t expect the world to be safe or life to be fair.
14. Sometimes you just have to go with the flow.
15. Don’t regret anything. Remember there wasn’t anything else that could have happened, given who you are and the state of the world at that moment. The only thing you can change is the present, so learn from the past.

Aren’t they awesome? You’re welcome!